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Question:
Dr. Heller,

We have been treating our daughter 18 years old for the last 3 months as she had tried to harm herself, she was hearing voices and had panic and anxiety attacks that we had to withdraw her from college in Indiana and bring her back to Florida.

She underwent MRI and other tests for Thyroid.  She's currently under Bipolar medication: Zyprexa and lithium and also on Effexor.  She has no more hallucinations of voices.

She still displays the following tendencies that have been described in your articles for BPD: inappropriate mood swings, chronic anger, emptiness, boredom, emotional pain, and rejection sensitivity.  She is also manipulative and creates crisis when things don't go her way.  It has become difficult to sustain her everyday while we parents have to go to work.

Our current Psychiatrist is suggesting "Menninger's" clinic as a possible solution.  Is that an option we should consider for diagnosis and treatment?

We are a little confused and I read your article and I am wondering if your method is a possibility for identifying what she has a borderline personality.  Border line starts with molestation?  The Dr. ruled it out after a number of visits.


Dr. Heller's Answer:
The BPD (borderline disorder) is a definite possibility.  Self harm is usually correlated with the BPD.  Hallucinations are rarely a part of BPD dysphoria, and could mean an additional diagnosis such as schizophrenia or bipolar mania if the BPD is present.

While molestation can cause the BPD, lack of it doesn't mean an individual has the BPD nor does molestation mean the individual has the BPD.  It's a high risk traumatic event, not something that proves or disproves the diagnosis.

BPD criteria are very specific:
http://www.BiologicalUnhappiness.com/DSM.htm
and need to be present since puberty.  If she was fine and didn't fit BPD criteria until 3 months ago, the BPD would not be the diagnosis.  Bipolar, schizophrenia or schizoaffective disorder is much more likely.  The key here regarding the BPD diagnosis is persistence of symptoms for years, even if it's gotten worse lately.

If the BPD is indeed present, fluoxetine is usually much more effective than Effexor, and at the right dose will stop the unprovoked mood swings, chronic anger and irritability, emptiness and boredom.  It will also dramatically lower the rejection sensitivity and chronic unhappiness.

The Menninger Clinic has an excellent reputation, however I am not familiar with their approach to diagnosing and treating the BPD.


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